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How Health and Beauty Go together

The way we look plays a huge part in the way we feel, which is why health and beauty are so closely linked. The way we look on the outside is often a window as to what’s going on inside- and our physique, skin, hair, eyes and teeth amongst other things can all be improved with good lifestyle choices. If you look after your body then looking great is just an added bonus, here are some of the ways you can go about it.




Diet
The foods you eat really are so important for your health. Eating the right combination of macro and micronutrients, and getting plenty of vitamins and minerals will allow your body to thrive and work to its best potential. From a health point of view, the right foods can ward off cancers, boost immunity, keep cholesterol, blood pressure and blood sugar in check and give you energy.

The wrong foods will do the opposite, leaving you feeling sluggish in the long term and susceptible to all kinds of preventable illnesses in the long term. While exercise is important for maintaining a healthy weight, it’s actually a diet that plays the biggest role.

You need to be eating the right number of calories to maintain a healthy BMI, and at your correct weight not only will you feel great but you’ll look your best too. You’ll look neither too large or too thin, just exactly as you’re meant to. This can be a great boost for your self-esteem, especially if you’ve not been the right weight for quite some time. Nutritious foods can also make your skin, hair and nails look healthy and beautiful so you’ll look fantastic as well as feel energised. You can get all of these ingredients in popular hair, skin and nails gummies so they are also a great option. 


Exercise
While eating the right amount of calories in your diet will make the most impact to weight loss, exercise can certainly help. You can burn around seven hundred calories in an intense hour exercise session which can help burn off any excess. The trouble a lot of people have is that overestimate how many calories they’re burning and underestimate what they’re eating. For this reason, you can exercise regularly and work hard and not actually lose any weight.

However one thing working out is great at is toning muscles, sculpting the body and improving cardiovascular fitness. So not only will you be physically stronger and have more endurance but your body will look toned and shapely due to working out. Exercise can strengthen bones, lower blood pressure, blood sugar and cholesterol. It releases endorphins meaning it can lower stress and anxiety, increase feelings of happiness and overall improve mental health as well as physical health.

From a beauty perspective, exercise shapes your body so your clothes fit you better and your physique looks its best. It can also improve skin by nourishing skin cells, improving elasticity and transporting away any toxins more quickly. As with the right foods, it also promotes healthy hair growth too.


Sleep
It’s called ‘beauty sleep’ for a reason. We all know how awful we look after a bad night’s sleep, our faces and eyes look puffy and those dark circles are a telltale sign of not getting enough kip. But it can also cause damage in the long term too. When we sleep, our bodies release powerful hormones that repair the cells of the body. When we’re not spending enough time asleep we miss these benefits, and from a superficial point of view can cause things like premature ageing in the skin.

However the health benefits are far worse, and research is showing that sleep is even more important than was first released. Missing even a few hours sleep can cause the equivalent of low-level brain damage, and over time this can be disastrous. Lack of sleep affects hunger hormones, meaning you’re more likely to overeat and gain weight- being overweight of course comes with its own health issues. It can lower immunity meaning you’re more susceptible to all kinds of illnesses and can lead to heart issues, heart attacks and stroke amongst other things.

Get into a good sleep routine, going to bed and getting up roughly the same time each day can help with this-this means not lying in for too long at weekends or going to bed too late. Switch off gadgets and technology an hour before bed since the lights can affect the hormones needed to wind down and sleep. Your resting metabolic rate (RMR) will play a vital role when you are looking to achieve your health goals. RMR is an estimation that shows the least amount of energy (calories) that your body consume when you do zero activity. 

Massage and Pampering
There are numerous health benefits which have been scientifically proven relating to massage therapy. As well as being able to ease and unknot stiff muscles giving you a greater range of motion, but it can release endorphins meaning you actually feel better too after having it done. It can help with certain injuries and soft tissue damage, digestion, headaches and much more.

Massage can also help you to look better too. Stimulating the tissues helps with circulation, reducing water retention and can even improve the appearance of cellulite. Where toxins are being flushed out by the lymph system more quickly due to boosted circulation you also get the benefit of better skin.

As well as feeling great, it’s also good for your health and your appearance too- why not book in at a spa and treat yourself now and again? There are lots of other pampering treatments which are great for skin health and improve appearance as an added bonus. Microdermabrasion, mud bath treatments and much more will rejuvenate appearance as well as hydrating and nourishing skin cells.


Oral Hygiene
Teeth are consistently ranked as one of the most important features when a person is looking for a partner. A nice smile makes you a desirable mate, as well as boosts your confidence. If you’re unhappy with your teeth, dentists really can work wonders these days.

From braces to whitening to veneers and implants, no matter what your situation is you will be able to achieve the teeth you want. But oral hygiene is about more than just looks, mouth issues such as gum disease can actually cause problems with the heart amongst other things. Visit your dentist and take their advice on whatever they find, not only will you look more beautiful but you cut your risk of all kinds of other linked health problems too.

Seasonal affective disorder what is it?


Today I want to talk about Seasonal affective disorder. I know what you are thinking it's summer this is not relevant, Have you lost your mind?


No, I have not. I used to suffer from this in the summertime as well as winter. I worked the night shift and could go days without seeing the sun as I slept through the day time hours. 

What is S.A.D? It is a depressive illness which has the following symptoms 

Symptoms of SAD can include:
  • a persistent low mood
  • craving carbs and gaining weight
  • feeling lethargic (lacking in energy) and sleepy during the day
  • a loss of pleasure or interest in normal everyday activities
  • irritability
  • feelings of despair, guilt and worthlessness
  • sleeping for longer than normal and finding it hard to get up in the morning
I really struggled. All over social media was people enjoying summer and I was in a constant state of winter and dark. I am not the only person in the UK who suffers from S.A.D in the summer. 

I contacted my GP. I was worried I wouldn't be taken seriously as it seemed crazy to me to have this in summer. I was fully supported and received Help and guidance. Never be afraid to ask for help. None is perfect and I am to the outside world a very bubbly and happy person but no one really knows my turmoil. I was prescribed anti-depressants. 

I found getting my routine right also helped. Eating and drinking had to be more routine and not if and when I felt the need to eat as I was doing. Your body is a machine it needs fuel to run. 

My days off I tried to get as much natural daylight and vitamin d as I could spending time outside really helped and I changed my night time routine to go to bed later to try and minimise the damage to my routine. 
I am not embarrassed to ask for help and I think this is the main point of this post. If you are struggling with any kind of mental health. Please ask for help. You are not alone. 

Win A Massive Rimmel Cosmetics Bundle

Its competition time again. This one is just as massive as the last one. I am co-hosting this giveaway with some of my lovely blogger friends. This giveaway will give one lucky winner a huge Rimmel makeup bundle. I know we are all going through highs and lows at the moment and this is a little way we can give back to one of you and bring something lovely into your world. If you are the lucky winner of course. I am not going to lie I am pretty jealous of the winner of this one. You all know how much I love makeup. Extra thanks go out to Vicky at Being Tilly's mum for organising this giveaway. I know what you are thinking stop wittering on and let's get to entering.  Remember to follow all the requirements to be in with a chance to win. Good luck and happy comping. 

It's July already and following on from the successful competition we shared for a huge bundle of Maybelline cosmetics, we have a Rimmel London cosmetics bundle to give to a winner of July's competition. Rimmel is, of course, a good English brand and many of us remember wearing it as a teenager! Luckily it has evolved over the years and it keeps up with the latest fashions in cosmetics. The competition we have on offer today is worth over £100.


Like last month this Rimmel competition is bought to you by the following group of awesome bloggers. Please pop over and visit their blogs.

So What Is In The Prize?

This Rimmel London cosmetics bundle includes lots of products that you might need as you come out of lockdown. The pubs and leisure places are opening in July, so it's nice to glam up ready for a night out. This prize package has
  • Magnif'eyes Wow Edition Eyeshadow
  • Brow Pro Micro Pen
  • Magnif'eyes Nude Edition Eyeshadow
  • Magnif'eyes Spice Edition Eyeshadow
  • WonderfullyReal Mascara
  • Volume Colourist Mascara
  • Ultimate Boost Volume Primer
  • Match Perfection Loose Face Powder
  • Rimmel Blush Palette
  • Provocalips 16 hr Lip Colour 'Kiss off'
  • Provocalips 16 hr Lip Colour 'Flirty Fling'

How Can You Be In With A Chance Of Winning?

For a chance to win a Rimmel bundle, just follow the instructions on the rafflecopter. you need to comment with 8 words or more below with your tip for making make up last all day. You can also use the rafflecopter for some extra entries into the competition. Entrants do not have to complete these, but the more you do enter, the more chances you have of winning. You need to be in it to win it.

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This competition was organised by Vicky and she can be contacted at beingtillysmummy@gmail.com for any questions about the competition.
Terms and conditions
The competition finishes on 31/7/2020
UK entrants only
You must be over 18 to enter this competition
You do not have to do all of the entry methods, but entries will be checked.
The winner will be notified by email if the winner doesn't reply within 28 days. Another winner will be chosen.

Fashion nova sports bras and PJs review

Today I have a fashion Nova haul for your all. It has been years since I ordered from fashion nova but they enticed me back with a 50% off discount code and I was in need of new sports bras and I had heard mixed reviews but I thought it was worth a shot for cheap sports bras right. 

I am a size 8 but I am a 28FF/ 30F, I have a very big chest for my frame and I struggle to get pretty sports bras that fit me. Since I have lost weight. I was once a bra fitter and I know I need to be re-measured since the weight loss. I have hips and a bum too so It is hard to dress my shape. 

I do a lot of fitness. I am on the mountain bike as much as I can I use an indoor bike and I do yoga and weights. So I think I am in a good place to review sports bras. That and the fact I am big-chested. I know what I want in a sports bra. 



This is the Brush It Off Active Sports Bra - Black/Combo Size small £11.99. 
This has a very cute cross back but I forgot to take a photo. I know blogger fail. This is so cute. I love the fit of this sports bra. This is a medium impact support bra and I would agree with that It has support in the form of foam inserts. This will be perfect for mountain biking/weight training but I wouldnt wear it for HIIT work. This keeps my chest secure and looks super cute too. 

What the brand says 
  • Available In Black/combo.
  • Medium Impact Sports Bra
  • Crossed Back Straps
  • Removable Cups
  • Pair With "Brush It Off Active Legging"
  • Performance Top
  • 88% Polyester 12% Spandex 
  • Imported


This is definitely a dupe for the popular lulu lemon sports bra and I am not mad at it at all. This is stunning. It says its lower impact. I can see why they are saying that but I would go with a low medium. I would happily do yoga and weight in this bra and equally, I would mountain bike in this bra. With mountain biking, you dont want a low impact bra as you dont want the girls bouncing about like crazy and I really feel this one is ok for mountain biking. So on the lower end of medium support. 



  • Hype Sports Bra In Infinity Seamless
  • No Seams Supportive Structure To Reduce Chafing
  • Sweat Wicking
  • Low Impact With Padding
  • Designed For Studio, Training And Running
  • Available In Black, White, Mocha, Hot Pink, And Light Purple
  • Pair With Any “Hype Active” Bottoms
  • Performance Sports Bra
  • 92% Nylon 8% Spandex
  • Imported





  • This is Energy Sports Bra In Sculpt Tech £11.99 size S
    This one is the most supportive of the bras I bought this is compression for. This you could do anything in. Even jumping about. This is great for anything in my opinion. I really like this one it has tight fit but it gives you confidence nothing is going to move around. It gives you a bit more of a flatter chest look than the other but let's face it you some times need all the holding in and less bounce. 

    What the brand says. 
    • Energy Sports Bra In Sculpt Tech
    • Tight Fit For Body Sculpting Feel
    • Sweat Wicking
    • Medium Impact With Removable Padding
    • Designed For Training And Studio
    • Available In Black,Mocha,Lime,Hot Pink And Blue       
    • Pair With any "Energy Active" Bottoms
    • Performance Sports Bra
    • Body: 83% Polyester 17% Spandex
    • Inner Layer: 84% Polyester 16% Spandex
    • Lining: 92% Polyester 8% Spandex



    These are On The Go Shorts - Navy £7.99 size M
    I read the review on this one and when a size up to Medium. I dont want running short to be tight. I like the fit of these. I could have gone down to small if I am honest. But I was worried about the length of the Small ones. I really like the length of these they are short but not too short. perfect for summer they come in a range of colours I might have to pick up a few more. 



    This is Glenda Romper £11.99 Size small. 
    I am afraid this has sold out since I ordered it and I can see why. This is a cute strapless romper and It is perfect for summer. I think I would have gone down a size for a tighter look but I like the roominess also. This has a bit elastic band built into the top of the romper meaning you are not going to have any little slips. Why dont more rompers have this! Well done fashion nova. This the perfect romper to stop tan lines. I hate tan tines and I tan pretty quickly so that is always annoying but this little romper is my saviour. I also love the side rushing to add definition. 


     Last but not lease this is Sleep Squad PJ Set £19.99 Size medium. 
    Why did I order medium this is really big on me but I guess that is nice for sleeping. I could have gone for extra small I think.  These are so cute and they feel so soft. I can't describe how soft they are, they are so luxurious. They give my old victoria secret a run for their money. They are honestly just gorgeous to wear and I will have to order more I think. But size down in these. 


    I hope you have liked my little haul. 




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    bullies and me how I survived them

    Today I want to talk about bullying. I have been on the receiving end of bullying all my life. I was bullied at school, I was bullied by an ex-partner, I was bullied out of a career. I feel like I am in a good place to talk about bullying.  

    Each one of us is different we are all unique I am not you and you are not me. My school years were hard, to say the least. I was diagnosed in primary school as being dyslexic. This was a long time ago and dyslexia was still a kinda new thing it was not as common as it is now. I was one of two children in my primary school at the time who was diagnosed. This means I was given extra help and even removed from some classes to be taught by myself. I loved to sing and dance I won awards in both. This did not sit well with my peers and I was picked on a lot. 

    My personality is one that wants to be liked. I will bend over backwards to be liked. Couple this, will bullies and you have a major problem. I was always the end of the joke. The popular girls would pick me up and use me and just as fast bully me rotten. I found it hard to fit in. I cried a lot and I felt physically sick. I really suffered from the mental torture I was under. 

    This continued through high school. Again I did a lot of my classes without the class with the special education teachers. My high school was two villages away which meant I made new friends. Which was awesome. I would like to say this was the end of the bullies but the same girls were in my high school. So it continued till the day I left school. 

    Unfortunately when I was 16 and still in school I was raped. I am not going to go into details here but if you look around this site you will find another post I have written on it. It was heartbreaking and I was not believed by anyone.  It happened and I know I was raped by a member of my family I should have trusted. This eventually caused the end of my relationship with my family. 

    I moved on with life and literally moved away. The thing is once you have been bullied you will know how I feel. I was broken. There is a place in my heart where I truly believe I am not good enough or that I do not deserve happiness. 

    I have many flaws I am not pretending to be perfect but I am fully when I look back that I was bullied. By friends by family by co-workers. bullying does not have to be physical it can be mental and most of mine was mental. Constant belittling, name-calling lie spreading and exclusion. You may be reading this and wondering have you been bullied. If you can relate to anything I am saying you are a bully survivor. Have you ever felt undermind? Belittled? taken advantage of? Ashamed because of lies, threatened? made fun? these are just some of the ways that bullies can attack your mental well-being. 

    I wish I had known back then what I know now. I am strong, I can achieve anything I want to achieve. These bullies are just that bullies they get off on hurting others. I am sorry but bullies do not change. They feed on your fear and hurt and this makes them feel superior.

    I have cleared out the bullies in my life, I hope. I made the conscious decision to part ways with anyone who is in the category of a bully. I have depression and anxiety and sometimes my mind will wander back to all the painful things these people did to me but they are not getting to win here. 

     One of the last people to bully me still works at the same place my husband does. I sometimes hear her name and it makes me feel instantly sick. There is a long story there but she won and I lost. I let her win. I hope one day all the bullies will realise what they have done to others and be accountable but I really do not think they will. 

    I wanted to write this to tell you that I am proof you can move on from the pain and the hurt that these people cause and you are worth it and you do matter. I promise you, you will find your happiness mine is right here right now. I have a wonderful supportive husband and his family are everything I could hope for and more. I have two dogs and I try to live a life I would be proud of. I do what I like doing and found a passion in life. No matter what you are called no matter what happens to you you are special you count and you are important. 

    If you are struggling right now please do not struggle in silence this lets the bully win and we are not victims we are survivours. Speak help change your circumstances. I gave up on what I thought was my dream job to a bully, I gave up my whole family and I can honestly hand on heart say I am a better person for it. 

    I believe in you and I know you will get through this. 

















    Win Maevea Rattan effect 4 seater Coffee set

    Ever dreamed of turning your garden into a place of tranquil relaxation? Or how about the perfect place to impress your friends with a BBQ? Well, I might have the answer to your prayers. I have teamed up with some fantastic UK blogger to offer you the chance to turn your garden into the garden of dreams. Does your garden furniture look, well a bit weathered? You need to enter this competition. You have the chance to win Maevea Rattan effect 4 seater Coffee set from B&Q worth £541. This would look awesome in any garden and really change the feeling of the space. I know I would love one of these in my garden for sure. 

    Whilst you are entering the comp why not take a little look at some of the other bloggers that are involved in this massive competition you may find your new favourite site. Go on and get entering. 




    Some UK bloggers have teamed up to offer you a fantastic giveaway for this summer, organised by Emma Drew. Keep reading to see who is involved and how to enter.



    Tummy2Mummy Peggy May | Chilling With Lucas | Stapos Thrifty Life Hacks | Two Plus Dogs | Moneysaving Superhero | Photographyish | You Have to Laugh | Thrifty Chap



    The Diary of a Jewellery Lover | A Rose Tinted World | MTBLM | Craft Hustle Directory | Paternal Damnation | Missing Sleep | Real Home and Living | Stressed Mum | Bronni




    So Nostalgic | Hawkes at Home | The Coffee Shop Nomad | Mummy Vs Work | Home in the Pastures | Hollie Plus | Girl On a Pension | Wotawoman Diary | Spilling Life Tea | Becca Blogs It Out




    Savvy Squirrel | Me, Them and the Others | My Three and Me | Miss LJ Beauty | Life After Blood Cancer | My Balancing Act | Our House, Our Home | The Mini Millionaire | A Money Minded Mum | Vegan etc | Lindy Loves | Looking After Your Pennies




    The Life of Dee | Francesca's Growing Patch | Youth n Trends | Wander and Luxe | DeborahStansil | Sunshine and Rain | Pounds and Sense | Nishi V | Side Hustle Directory



    Free Budgeting Tools | My Blog My Business | Mrs Pinch | Our Adventurehood | SueFoster.Info | My Savings Journal | Birds and Lilies | Mum on a Budget | Nine to Three Thirty | Love Petals | Lisa's Notebook



    Prize Warriors | Mum's the Nerd | Petals And Planes | Doing My Best | Travel Bugs | Mum's Money Corner | My Tunbridge Wells | Charlotte Musha | That Copper Life | Renovation Bay-Bee | Money Saving Nat | Extreme Frugal Living | Frugal Living UK | The Free From Mummy | Binancially Inclined | Best Things To Do In York




    Adventures of a Yorkshire Mum | Melanie's Fab Finds | Helen Craddock | | Brunch or Breakfast | Futures | The Somerset Foodie | Dungarees and Donuts | Just Average Jen | Mums The Wurd | Budgeting for Students | Gin and Cocktail Bars


    Skinny Spending | Chatting Food | Frugal Blogger Eats | Money's on the Mind | Accidental Hipster Mum | CharleySaves | Coffee and Cwtches | Mummy Saver Money Maker | Brit on a Budget | The Money Builders | Thrifty Husband | My Beautiful Mess





    Building Online Sales | Drewmies | Make Money Without a Job | A Thrifty Gamer | This Money Works | Maternity Money | Amy Pigott | Scottish Outlander | Parent Blogging Secrets | Create Joy Everyday | A Life of Lovely

    The prize


    We are giving away a rattan effect 4 seater set from B&Q (depending on stock availability).


    Should the chosen prize no longer be available when the draw is complete then we will choose another suitable garden set.

    Enter now

    The competition will run from 15th June until 30th June 2020 (midnight).

    A winner will be drawn from the Rafflecopter entries and checked before being contacted. 


    Once contacted and the prize has been arranged, the Rafflecopter widget will display the first name and first initial of the winner's surname.


    Simply complete any or all of the entry options in the widget.


    Good luck!



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