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Top Ways to Get Your Confidence Back

 Confidence isn't something that comes naturally to everyone. Some people are less confident than others and others choose to work on themselves in new ways so that they can build up that confidence in something they’ve never experienced before. You deserve to feel confident in yourself or in your ability to do something new, and if you want to learn how to do more new things, you need to have courage. Courage helps build confidence, so whether you are looking to be more confident about the way you look or the things you learn, you need to feel as if you can conquer the world.


Self-confidence isn't something that you can build overnight. Sometimes it takes things like weight loss surgery to feel physically confident or signing up for university to feel mentally confident. You can even improve your emotional confidence by surrounding yourself with people who love you. There are plenty of things that can help you to get your confidence back, and we’ve got some of the top ways that you can do it below.

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  1. Take your mind back a bit. When you were young,  you were likely much more confident than you are right now. You might have felt freer, like you had your whole life ahead of you. You might even have thought about giving yourself more recognition for things as a teenager compared to now. Acknowledge the way that you’ve grown as a person since then, sure, but make a point of digging down to that old confidence that you used to have - even if you don't quite feel it! 

  2. Get your friends to help you. Asking your friends to tell you which traits of yours that they admire will really help you. Your friends know you the best, and you need to feel their love most. Ask them what they think of you and they will step forward and tell you it all! 

  3. Keep a file of ‘love’. A place where you keep a note of all the positive things that people say to you is a necessity to keep reminding yourself of how much you are an amazing person. Sometimes you need that pat on the back and if you can keep a record of it you are going to be able to manage your confidence and feel it soar. 

  4. Creating positive mood generators. Affirmations, playlists, there are so many ways that you can create positive mood generation and if you can put together strengthening statements that will tell your brain how well you’re doing, you’re going to feel better. Confidence will grow when you soak all of this up and remind yourself of exactly who you are.

  5. Sleep. Confidence is going to be held by a happy individual and happy individuals are those who can rest well and sleep. Get a good night of rest, and make a point of feeling well with it. You won’t regret taking the time to relax. Sleeping will build your confidence massively!

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